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Just Keep on Tangoing … Tina Ferrari on Being an International Nomad

Self-described world nomad Tina Ferrari: tango dance instructor, DJ, English-Italian translator, citizen of the world. She has created for herself a lifestyle that suits her peripatetic soul just right — living in Italy, as well as other countries, and covering just as many miles as her popularized racecar last name, though she actually bears no relation Enzo Ferrari. Except, perhaps, a desire to be on the road. And the fruition of all these great things took only one bold decision: to just go… and then in the end, feeling at home in the world and with herself.

By Tina Ferrari

All my life I wanted to be one of those people who lived abroad. When my father and I watched movies filmed elsewhere in the world, he would get out the globe and we would find the city or country where the film was set. I guess you could say I got an early start in understanding that the world is small enough to navigate. As I grew up, the occasional friend would return from a year in France or Italy, and I would be so envious. I finally decided to stop being envious, create an opportunity for myself, and just go. Now, I’ve lived in Switzerland working as an au pair, Italy twice, as well as Argentina.

I can imagine people will wonder what kind of life I live. I’ve had people say interesting things to me on the subject, particularly, “Oh, must be nice!  Do you come from money?” And it couldn’t be farther from the truth. For most people, at least those I know, being an expat involves stressing out about money approximately 90% of the time. We are compelled to live elsewhere for so many reasons that have nothing to do with money. Me, I’m just a natural nomad, and I would be so sad if I couldn’t allow myself to do this.  But am I rich? No way, at least not economically.

I’m a 33 year-old citizen of the world currently living in Italy in the beautiful region of Puglia, Italy where I split my time between cities Lecce and Bari. If you look at the boot-shaped map of Italy, I’m in the heel. I’m a tango dancer, teacher, DJ, and a freelance translator.

I left Seattle “for good” in 2006 to study in Perugia, Italy. Eventually, I became an Italian citizen due to a direct bloodline (my great-grandfather came to the States, never renounced his citizenship, and it was thus passed down to my grandfather and my father, and then to me.) At this time, I was still waiting for my Italian citizenship to go through, so initially I went on a study visa. I had visited Italy so many times before, including a short stint when I studied in Siena, and I knew I just had to live there. I already spoke Italian after having been exposed to it through my family and studying it extensively, but I wanted to improve, and I dreamed of becoming a translator. So, I enrolled in a program at the University for Foreigners of Perugia that involved linguistics and translation. I wound up staying there only six months because I felt a sudden, profound longing to be in Buenos Aires, Argentina. I went for a month or so with a boyfriend before heading back to Seattle, where I stayed for eight months and finally took the leap into the world of full-time freelance translation, so I could maintain my nomadic life without quitting jobs all the time.

After an initial visit to Argentina, I ended up going back to live there for about a year and a half. Buenos Aires is one of those cities that just takes hold of you and doesn’t let go. It’s hard to put into words what my experience in Buenos Aires entailed, though you can imagine there was a lot of tango! I had already been dancing tango since 2003. But while living in Buenos Aires, I took lessons here and there, danced a couple of times a week, and in the afternoon helped out a milonguero named Pedro Sanchez with his students. I did more than just dance tango of course, but it played an important role in my experience. I loved it so much that I felt at home. I remember sitting at my computer one day and looking out the window at the sunny sky and saying, “this is my home. I’m here now. I’m immigrating. This is it. This is really it.” Famous last words?

Unfortunately, with the global economic crisis, my translation work slowed down to a very sad halt. Not to mention the apartment I was sharing with others began to fall apart: my bedroom door fell off, there wasn’t gas in the apartment for 21 days, our faucet ran even when off, and the apartment manager didn’t have the funds to fix anything. In addition to some other personal matters I won’t mention, life suddenly turned not-so-pretty in every way. Except for one thing: while all of this was going on, my Italian citizenship came through! As much as the decision killed me, I had to leave Argentina to tie up loose ends in America and finally move to Italy. At this juncture, it made sense to be in Italy and reestablish my career as a translator as all my clients were there. While I would have preferred to stay in Argentina, I had to think about my survival.

Those transitional six months I passed in Seattle were horrible. I felt so sad – like a failure. Here I was, the fabulous nomad who was supposed to be conquering the world and had nothing to show for it. I wound up broken hearted and without a penny in my pocket. People around me at least had homes, jobs, spouses. Me, I had nothing. Just a newly obtained Italian passport and hope that I could turn things around. It was a bad time. Not having any money is not a nice feeling – and I’m saying that I couldn’t even afford a cup of coffee. I know there are probably a lot of people who have felt similar in recent years; it’s not an easy time for the world.

Since I had been teaching tango with Pedro in Buenos Aires, I decided that I would continue teaching tango in Seattle and Italy, and get more into DJing at milongas, or tango dance salons. I loved it so much, and I must say it really did save me while my translation business healed. Tango in itself is therapeutic because it is based on a loving embrace. The income it brought me, while not a lot, enabled me to eat and live.

I continued giving tango dance lessons after I moved to Italy and tried to resuscitate my translation business. I wound up living in Lecce and teaching with a partner, who has since left. I’m now traveling quite a bit to DJ at milongas around Italy, and now my translation work is coming in almost too quickly, one after the other. I’m a very, very busy girl with little free time!

Sometimes I have to remember to stop for a few minutes and look back at all that has happened. I’m thankful that things have turned out for the better, and thankful that I can go back to Buenos Aires when I want. My quality of life in Italy is high, and I’m healthy. I have finally accomplished my dream of living internationally and doing work that I love. And, I can save up.

Looking back, I must confess that I sometimes miss that transition period in Seattle. It was hard and depressing, but the growth I went through was incredible. I struggled every day, looking forward with the simple goal of being happy. I learned a lot during that time and deepened some very important friendships.

The lesson I have learned from all of this: there is no straightforward path to your dreams. And that’s not a bad thing. We get so impatient sometimes and forget to consider the journey; I know I have in the past. But just when you think it’s all going wrong, just when you think it’s hopeless and you feel like giving up, that’s precisely the moment in which you should take a deep breath, and just relax and wait. Either the situation will take a turn for the better or you’ll suddenly have the idea of the century on what to do next! And that is a beautiful moment.

You can read more about Tina on her blog, or if you speak Italian, you can also visit her tango site at www.tinaferraritango.com.

Think you might be eligible for Italian citizenship? Tina recommends www.expatsinitaly.com as a helpful resource to learn more.

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Sam’s Top Ten Sao Paulo

By Sam DeMello

In his last post on teaching English in Sao Paulo, Sam DeMello recounted his success story on how a bold journey became a life change. Now, after having lived in Sao Paulo, he shares with us his favorite things in the city he loves.

1. Hanging out at the Mercado Municipal

The central market of Sao Paulo is awesome. It’s in the center of the city, surrounded by 20 square blocks of street vendors selling everything from pirated movies and fake Gucci to illegal fireworks. I’m pretty sure that if you knew where to look, you would find human organs. Be sure to scarf down a mortadella sandwhich as featured on No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain.

2. Eating Feijoada
Feijoada is the traditional dish of Sao Paulo. It’s a super heavy black bean stew with lots of different pig parts, most of them unidentifiable. At local restaurants it’s only offered on Wednesdays and Saturdays. And since it sits in your stomach like a rock afterward, I would recommend going on the weekend when you have time to relax and digest. For me dining in Brazil is an experience: go out with friends, start drinking at 11 a.m., arrive at the restaurant around 1 p.m., eat and continue drinking until 3 p.m., return to a friends house and pass out until 6 p.m., wake up slowly and watch a soccer game, continue drinking, then go out to a bar or club. Now that, personally, I think is the perfect Saturday in Sao Paulo.

3. Going to Soccer Games
There are three big soccer teams in the city proper: Sao Paulo FC, Palmeiras, and Corinthians. Without a doubt, I think the best game to go to is Corinthians. They are like the Oakland Raiders of Brazil, the team of the favela.  The tickets are cheap, the beer is cheaper, and the food outside the stadium is awesome, although sometimes a little risky. You’ll spend the entire time on your feet dancing, singing, chanting as loudly as a howler monkey, and, if the home team scores a goal, getting bear-hugged by every beer-bellied lunatic in the vicinity. Also, soccer games are the best places to learn how to properly curse in Portuguese. Bring your notebook.

4. Going to the Beach
The closest beach to the city is in Santos about 40 minutes away, but I would recommend venturing even a little farther out. It doesn’t really matter where you go, everywhere the beaches are awesome, and the eye candy is as well. As I’m sure everyone knows already, there is nothing smaller than a Brazilian bikini; however, every girl wears one and I mean … every girl. So, even grandmothers show a lot of skin. A note to the ladies: the tsunga (men’s speedo) is also in fashion, especially the white one if you’re a real boss tycoon.

5. Eating Sushi!
This might sound kinda strange, but Brazil actually has the largest Japanese population outside of Japan. The first Japanese immigrants came to Brazil in 1908 in search of better living conditions after the end of feudalism, which had worsened living standards for poorer populations in Japan. Many of them sought jobs on Brazilian coffee plantations. Today, this immigration influx is reflected in the number of Sushi places in Sao Paulo. The quality is great, but the price is even better.  They have a system here called Rodizio where you pay a flat price, usually about $25 US, and you eat all you want, usually until someone throws up.

6. Chilling in Parque Ibirapuera
This pseudo-natural wonder resembles Golden Gate Park or Central Park as it is filled with museums, soccer fields, basketball courts, and music venues. My roommates and I like to have picnics there, which usually involves a five-liter jug of Sangue de Boi (Bull’s Blood), as far as wines go just imagine a worse Carlo Rossi.

7. Perusing Liberdade
Liberdade is Japanese Town in Sao Paulo, and it’s especially cool on the weekends when there’s an open air market with crafts and specialty foods. Also a great place to get, as mentioned prior, Sushi!

8. Heading to the Countryside
This one’s a little harder to do unless you know somebody, but lots of Brazilians have Sitios, or small country houses. It’s  a great place to relax, enjoy Brazilian BBQ, and play some soccer. So, start making friends upon arrival.

9. Rocking Out to Live Music
It doesn’t matter where you are, almost every little bar has live music resounding through the streets almost every night of the week. There’s a small neighborhood called Villa Madalena, which is a great place to have a drink and catch some Bossa Nova. Two of my favorite places are Bar do Bardot and Odoborodongodo.

10. Visiting Museums
This one’s not necessarily my cup of tea, but I know other people dig them. MASP, the Museum of Modern Art, is free on Tuesdays. Also check out the Museum of Football, Museu do Futebol located in the Sao Paulo Municipal Stadium.

For more tips on what to do in Sao Paulo, Brazil, check out The New York Times Travel article Weekend in São Paulo.

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More Horse Power More Girl Power: Wranglin’ Them Up and Ridin’ Em

Sofie and I bearing the cold out on the trail one winter day

 

I had only been asleep for 45 minutes by the time Sofie woke me up at 7:30 a.m. “Time to go get the horses!” she whispered in a stifled shout, overly enthusiastic to run with the wild beasts at the break of day. The sun was still asleep. I had scarcely returned from my Friday night out. The Gauchos and other farm hands had the day off. So, it was our responsibility to drive the truck over to the far corral along the river, where the horses were suppose to be, and usher all 28 of them the short distance back to the farm. We had, however, locked them away over night in the corral with the broken fence; logically a bad choice. Three of our horses, David Blaine, David Copperfield, and Harry Houdini, were escape artists that incited the rest of the clan to follow where ever they wandered. That morning, as we found, they had not only escaped but also disappeared.

Enrique and I hop into the little red truck, Sofie and Diego (our marketing manager) wrangle Bedwino and Icaro, whom we had tied up the night before, and we tear off in different directions in the journey to find our magical ponies somewhere out there in the hills of Chicoana, Argentina or even farther astray in Salta. “When I find them, I’m going to murder those sons of bitches,” Enrique rang out as he floored it down the dirt road into town (When they were back in the corral he didn’t feed them for two days). But his concern was genuine as a horse in the highway could mean death for either the animal, the driver, or even worse, both.

Enrique and I sailed through the hidden corners of vast Argentine farmland, searching always in the far distance, throwing our arms up in desperation. “Have you seen a pack of horses go by,” we would ask random bystanders. “Have you seen a parade of stallions, a group of mares … there was a painted one, a couple gray ones … they’ve escaped! They’ve escaped!”

Three hours later, we found them munching away tranquilly in a field full of daisies on the other side of Chicoana. I was famished, freezing, feeling, due to lack of sleep, as though my eyes were going to involuntarily close and not open.

Eager to return home, Sofie and I sprung to action, traipsed straight through the daisies, roped one our horses — Milonga, who was named after one of the great elements of tango — around the neck, and I leapt onto her bareback, taking the reins. “Let’s get ’em home already,” I called down to Sofie who pushed down daisies in the opposite direction before hoping up onto Icaro. Sofie too was enlivened with the desperate prospect of heading home. Her calves had been rubbed raw with saddle rash after having forgotten to put on her chaps. Icaro, as both of us had learned, was a stallion with an untamable soul. Sofie’s biceps grew exponentially over the course of time spent on the farm just by trying to hold him back from escaping. But, they made for each other a perfect match: both strong willed and wild. “Ya!” she cried, kicking Icaro in the sides brutally and racing to the front of the hurd.

Sofie took the lead, maintaining the troops at pace, I ushered them forward at the back of the group, Diego … lazily slouched over on Bedwino and counted the number of ants he could spot along the road, trailing behind as Sofie and I ran and shouted orders at the crazed horses who bit and bucked at each other.

“Dude, what’s he doing back there?” I asked her.

“I dunno,” she said. “What a boludo!” (Boludo is Argentine speak for toolbox or fool) As a side note, Sofie, who talks in her sleep, woke me up that night when she shouted, “Diego! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA” with a wall-shaking guffaw that she didn’t even remember the next day. Another side note, this sleep talking thing was an often occurrence. We won’t even get started about the time I woke to find Sofie sleep walking with our lamp in her hand.

On our excursion back to the ranch, we paraded through back roads, along the main highway, over to and down the dry riverbed, back through the small trail back home to the farm, through the low brush and overhanging thorns, and finally, back to the corral. There were stares and questions from town members: Who were these blond Gauchas echoing orders across Argentine farm country, galloping along the road, running in line with a group of other restless caballos? The rumors whirlwinded through town, which didn’t take long. Chicoana is chiquito.

By the time we arrived and locked up the horses to think about what they had done, it was 1:30 p.m. Time to crash, but there would be no nap, not at least for me. There would be instead a smokey asado, or barbeque, and celebration as we watched Argentina beat Mexico in the World Cup game. In this instant, our two seconds of fame were quickly overtaken by Argentina’s great love and obsession, the idol above all which Argentines put all else: soccer.

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Starting a Business in Sao Paulo, Brazil: Pipedream or Reality?

In this edition of Real World Meets Girl, small-business owner Sam DeMello recounts how he opened his own English school in one of the world’s travel hot spots: Sao Paulo, Brazil. You go boy! Enter Sam …


I woke up the other day and realized that I am the owner of my own company, doing business in a language that I didn’t speak a year ago, and teaching English in a country that I used to dream about. What a revelation! I moved to Brazil with no connections and very little Portuguese, and after six months I had better friends here than I had in my life back home. It’s the most receptive, warm, happy place I’ve ever been; I feel at home here.

Brazilians can’t understand why a kid from the United States, let alone from California, would want to leave paradise behind to live in the Third World. But I guess there are really two questions here that have very different answers: why did I leave the States in the first place, and why did I decide to stay here?
The first question is easy to answer. I wanted to do something different, to see the world. I continued to travel as much as I could through high school and college, but every time I traveled I felt rushed, as if I had to do as much as possible every day, as if I were always missing out on something, always on the outside looking in. I wanted to really experience a place, spend some time there, get to know the culture, the people, the language, and immerse myself completely. I didn’t have a lot of money, so I decided to teach English — it seemed like a good way to get my foot in the door and, being on a tight budget, it would let me pay my own way. I took a four-week TEFL course at UC Santa Barbara after I completed my undergrad there, and two months later I found myself stepping off a plane into the chaotic traffic of Sao Paulo. Population wise, Sao Paulo Brazil is the seventh largest city in the world behind top three leaders Tokyo, Japan; Seoul, South Korea; and Mexico City, Mexico.

To be honest, I have no idea how I ended up living in Brazil. Moving to South America seemed cool, I love soccer and Brazilian music, and I figured it was cheap enough that I could live for a while in Sao Paulo on the meager $1,000 in my bank account. There were, of course, a couple small things that I had overlooked in my eagerness to be on my way. I didn’t know anyone in Brazil, my basic Portuguese language skills were apt enough to help me find the bathroom or ask for a check, but not much more than that. Above all of this, I found myself in a city of over 18 million people with neither a place to live nor a job; as the saying goes: God protects fools and drunks. My first week in Brazil, I was definitely both of those.

I got incredibly lucky when I found a blog online by an American guy teaching English in the same city. I managed to track him down during my first week here, and he helped me a ton. He introduced me not only to his boss at a local school, which is where I got my first job teaching English, but also to his landlord, which is how I got my first “apartment” (well, really it was a closet with a mattress on the ground, but it was a start). The first couple of weeks were rough. I didn’t have any friends, I couldn’t communicate with people, I got lost everywhere, and I was working way too much. It was pretty lonely, but at the same time it was the freest I ever felt.

So, how did I end up running my own English school? I wish I could say that I always wanted to be a businessman or that I had some super complex plan with what I was going to do with my life, but the truth is I had no idea what I was doing; in fact, I still have no idea what I’m doing. I just found myself rolling with the punches, and trying to make the best of my situation. As an American citizen, a visa is necessary just to visit Brazil, and work visas are almost impossible to come by. Originally, I entered the country on a tourist visa, which allowed me to stay there legally for six months (as a tourist you can stay three months, and then extend for another three months. At that point, you have to leave the country for six months without return before applying for a new visa). By the end of that term, I could speak Portuguese, had lots of friends, and really didn’t want to leave. When I mentioned this to a friend of mine who was a lawyer he suggested we open a company in his name where he would hire me as an employee and therefore I would be granted the necessary work visa. So, we decided to start an English school — not that either of us had any experience operating a company.

We figured it would just be a joke allowing me to continue teaching and living in Brazil legally and for him to put something good on his resume. Hence, Pinnacle English School was born. We opened the company on paper in October 2009, and legal council told me that I would have my visa by Christmas.

Overtime I developed a roll call of employees, albeit they happened to be friends of mine: one from college who had been fired and wanted to travel; one who was teaching In South Korea, but decided Brazil would be a better fit; his girlfriend; and another friend from back home. Even though the business was growing, things did not always go smoothly, and there were a lot of times when I thought the entire project would fail. My visa, for example, ended up being delayed until May. This rendered me illegal, and therefore meant that I couldn’t rent an apartment, open a bank account, or do lots of other things that I took for granted living in the US. Getting new students was also a slow process.

All of us working at Pinnacle English School lived on about two dollars a day for a couple of months, feeling sometimes like a bunch of poor immigrants eating rice and beans every day, but obviously compared to people living in the Sao Paulo slums we were nowhere close to real poverty. To my teammates’ credit, they stuck with it through the hard times, and now we have a successful company. Currently, we have 85 students.

Moving to Brazil has ended up creating tremendous opportunity for me. I honestly don’t know what I would be doing in the United States if I were still there. Now, I love everything about Brazil: the food, the music, the culture. Everything. I love that you can walk down the street at 3 a.m. on a Wednesday and there are guaranteed to be people out on the sidewalks drinking and laughing. I love that almost every single bar, no matter how small or run-down, in a residential neighborhood has live music almost every night of the week. I love going to the beach where the water is warm, the women are beautiful, and you don’t have to worry about great white sharks. I love the trash in the streets, the favelas, the kids on the sidewalk (not that these things are signs of prosperity and wealth, but they feel like the real world. You’re not in a bubble; you see the other side of life). But most of all I love the people.

I still have absolutely no idea what I’m doing, or what I’m going to be doing tomorrow, but for now I’m enjoying work, enjoying life, and most importantly, I’m learning something new every day.

If I had one piece of advice it would be this: a lot of times we focus on the big picture way too much; we try to plan and organize and get everything ready before we take the first step. Sometimes the best thing to do is take the first step on your own, start your journey, and most of the time you’ll find that things tend to fall into place. It hasn’t always been fun, it for sure hasn’t been easy, but without a doubt it has been the most rewarding experience of my life. I’ve learned so much about myself, what I need to be happy, what’s important to me, and what I want out of life just from being in Brazil. I still have no idea what the future holds, but I think that everyday I’m much better prepared to face it.

To contact Sam, please see the information below; he is currently accepting applications for teaching positions.


Sam DeMello
Demello.sam@gmail.com
http://www.pinnacleenglish.com

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Horse Horror Stories and Overcoming Fear of the Uncontrolable

Since before I can remember, I have been in love with horses. Throughout my youth, I had a tan canvas bag filled with Grand Champion plastic horses that became a permanent fixture on my shoulder. The bag grew horizontally as I grew vertically, and it was always Megan and Her Horses. Every morning during summertime, when school was out of session, my mom would bring Megan and her Horses to her step class. While she grape-vined and double-cross stepped in her bright pink sweatband and multicolored leotard, I would play with my horses watching her from the sidelines, looking into the mirror and seeing her face smiling and sweating back at me.

Over time, I learned three things. First, plastic horses bear no resemblance to real horses because you are in control of feeble play things. Second: even if you love someone — or something — that affection is not always reciprocated. Third: horses hate me. I reference the following examples to prove my point…

Age 8, Yorba Linda, California. The crickets chirped, the sun sang, and a blue bird sat on my shoulder as my mother and I trotted along the dusty trail during a peaceful afternoon ride. Aunt Jemima and Mr. Rodgers skipped through the field at my right holding hands, each giving me a thumbs up as I passed them by. I smile back at them, but suddenly Mr. Rodgers’ face enshrouds in a dark cloud of terror as he sees my horse’s eyes glow red and its ears lay back flat as a down-turned mailbox flag. It swaggers, side steps, flicks its head, and decides it’s suddenly time for him to retire from his people-totting career  and says, “Screw this, I’m moving to Boca Raton.”

I realized we weren’t in step class any more. “Oh no!” Aunt Jemima screamed. Megan and her horse turned and bolted in the opposite direction leaving my mother and my pride in the dust as I shouted “Stop, no, stop!” but these beasts do not come with emergency breaks. So I clutched the saddle horn in a white-knuckle death grip and apologized to the horse for what the Indians did to its ancestors and lie telling him that the beaches in Boca Raton aren’t that great, but to no avail he kept trotting, cantering, galloping, warp-speeding it down the path until a random man jumped into the path with both arms raised screaming, “Woah!” The horse must have thought he had run all the way to Florida because gracefully he stopped before the stranger as if the guy were holding a paper sign at the airport that read Mr. Ed …. But I still didn’t learn my lesson.

Age 10, Ensenada, Mexico. My my mom’s friend Jan, my mom, and I decide to take a tranquil horseback ride down the beach at sunset while the men drink Coronas at the house. As we trudge along, my heart races, but it’s all fine and dandy because I see neither Mr. Rodgers nor Aunt Jemima. Until, we turn a corner off the beach and in the distance I see Santana plucking a sick sliding scale on his Fender and Frida Kahlo plucking her uni brow. Our tour guides ask us if we’d like to extend our ride up this ambiguous trail, and when we say yes, Santana and Frida glance up at me shaking their heads fervently, no. But we trudge valiantly onward anyway. Within minutes, Jan’s horse stops. Just stops. My mom’s horse bolts, dragging her through trees and low brush and ramming her against a brick wall. My horse bucks and rears and bucks and rears and some how, like last time, I manage to stay on. Our tour guides, who were actually a couple of snot-nosed kids, launch stones at it and scream “Alto, alto alto!” and I scream, “No, alto. No, alto!” thinking they were trying to make it dance instead of stop. There’s a three second lull and I manage to jump off before the horse begins to breathe fire, sprouts wings, and flies away.

I vow for several years never to get on a horse again and resort to feeding carrots to Frank the black friendly stallion at the Orange County swap meet who was securely bolted up behind a sturdy, restricting corral.

Then … age 23, Santa Barbara, California. My boyfriend surprises me for my birthday and we go (dun, dun, dun) horseback riding through the hills. It should have been a hand-holding, jolly, romantic scene as often depicted on the Bachelor, but the only rose I went home with that day was the gargantuan, blooming bud on my left butt cheek after I was launched from the horse’s back hiney-first onto a sharp rock.

What on earth possessed me to get back in the saddle? Purely and simply a desire to overcome the terror of something I’ve always wanted to enjoy. So, naturally I put myself in a position of humble ineptitude, paradoxically leading people in doing something I knew nothing about and was terrified of. On the Funny Farm, I became not only a translator but also a horseback riding trail guide. A captain who had never sailed … good thing there aren’t any icebergs in the wild frontier of Northern Argentina.

What was I thinking?

When we travel, we cover unfamiliar territory, sometimes troupsing along the undiscovered parts of ourselves that we stummble upon and want to challenge to make stronger. And we can push this even farther and do so even in familiar environments. Travel writer Rolf Potts discusses five lessons we learn while traveling that we can apply to our lives back home. Going to another country isn’t always necessary to push yourself. So, spend a day without your phone; answer to that little voice that’s been telling you to take a cooking class. Target something that scares you and go after it fiercly and languish in that feeling of embarressment when you grab hold of the reins and ask, “What am I suppose to do with these?” And then tell me about it.

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Salta, Argentina Bungee Jump

Sofie and Megan take the big leap off the El Dique bridge outside of Salta, Argentina. Big cheer for Sofie for challenging her fear of heights!

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